Finding your voice isn’t just about speaking—it’s about moving, breathing, and showing up fully. Here’s how to reclaim yours
Have you ever felt a lump in your throat when you wanted to speak up—at work, in a meeting, or online as an entrepreneur? You have ideas, insights, and value to share, yet somehow your voice falters.
This isn’t about lack of confidence—it’s science. Your body, nervous system, and cultural conditioning all play a role in how your voice emerges. Understanding this can transform your presence, leadership, and business expression.
In many cultures, including my own Taoist-influenced Chinese heritage, humility, subtlety, and restraint are not only deeply treasured, but expected Speaking up about your achievements, drawing attention to yourself, or “boasting” is not attractive for a Chinese girl/woman. I was definitely not encouraged to be self-promotory.
Contrast that with American business culture, where self-promotion, bold visibility, and unashamed advocacy for your ideas are rewarded.
When I was growing up, I had one set of values when I stepped foot outside the door – and another back at home.
It took me a while to realise that shyness wasn’t my personal weakness (though it was, in a way a handicap for quite a while…).
These mixed message create tension: How do you honour your values while navigating workplaces or entrepreneurial spaces that reward confident, visible self-expression?
Fear of judgment isn’t just mental—it’s physiological. Anxiety tightens our throat, shortens breath, and well our voice can come out downright squeaky at times. When we activate our parasympathetic nervous system through somatic practices, we relax the body and create conditions for natural, authentic voice.
Embodied practices allow you to step into your self-expression without abandoning your values or cultural integrity. You learn to speak up and promote your ideas in a way that feels aligned and sustainable.
When your body feels safe, confident, and free, you can promote yourself and your work with authenticity—not arrogance. Your body supports you, rather than fighting against you.
Your values don’t need to be sacrificed for success. You can:
This integration creates a new model of leadership and self-expression: one that is culturally aware, embodied, and more receptive.
Clearly mindset alone isn’t enough. Somatic practices help you:
Some of us carry deeper patterns of inhibition or conditioning from childhood, cultural norms, or professional experiences. Trauma-informed practices prioritize safety and pacing, letting your voice emerge naturally and sustainably. NB I always like to emphasize that if you have deep trauma, then I will refer you to an appropriate specialist.
Your voice isn’t lost. It’s waiting for the right conditions to emerge. Somatic practices, breathwork, and movement help you reclaim authentic expression, balance humility with visibility, and speak your truth in both work and business.
Notice where your body feels tight when speaking or promoting yourself.
Experiment with simple grounding or movement exercises to release tension.
Practice expressing your ideas in safe spaces—friends, journaling, or low-stakes presentations.
If you’d like a grounding practice to begin, just send me a message on social media - dm me the word Ground.
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